|Posted on February 6, 2018 at 4:20 PM||comments (0)|
"It eventually gets better, without any sort of explanation; one day you realize that you're no longer upset. You're no longer mad, hurt, or bothered by the things that took so much of your energy and thoughts. You will find yourself in a peaceful place and enjoy that feeling."
Time is a powerful healer. Trust the timing of your life. Trust that life is on your side. Trust that things happen for a reason. Trust in the journey. Trust in your destiny. Trust that your heart will always get you through. You’re stronger than you know, wiser than you know, and worth more than you’ll ever feel. Keep rising above everything that feels heavy. Your time here on earth isn’t promised, but you are admired, needed, and loved more than you know. Keep your head up, beautiful. You’re going to get through this. Promise.
|Posted on February 5, 2018 at 11:10 AM||comments (0)|
NEVER REGRET BEING A GOOD WOMAN TO THE WRONG MAN...
Keep being a great woman...for yourself. Don’t let hurt, pain, or anger make you bitter. Don’t allow it to take ahold of the good that’s within you. When you do, you give power to someone no longer in your life to control, dictate, and influence your actions. Unfortunately, the only one who ends up losing is YOU. Losing potential opportunities because you’re unable to consider that someone may be good to you. Unable to see that not all people are the same. Take the time to heal your heart so that you can properly allow love back in when ready.
|Posted on February 5, 2018 at 11:05 AM||comments (0)|
I’ve always said people are going to do whatever they want, regardless of their circumstances. You can be the most amazing person in the world, whether as a spouse, employee, or even a family member. Labels unfortunately don’t always mean the same thing to others and also don’t stop people from disrespecting you. Because of this, I’ve learned that going into anything new will be scary and you can’t avoid pain as it’s inevitable. You can only wish and hope that people have the same heart as you. In life, you’ve got to take chances and that sometimes means putting your heart on the line. For what it’s worth, everything in life whether gone good or bad, is a lesson.
|Posted on January 3, 2018 at 1:10 PM||comments (0)|
JUST REMEMBER NOT EVERYONE HAS
THE SAME HEART AS YOU.
This lesson was probably one of the hardest to learn. Most likely because of my ego, pride, and belief that there is good in everyone. It was a hard pill to swallow, to learn that just because you wouldn’t do something to do someone, it didn’t mean others wouldn’t do the same. My takeaway from this is that you shouldn’t stop yourself from being a great person, caring, and especially thinking of others because very seldom do. However, realize that sometimes as difficult as it may sound or believe to be true, it had nothing to do with you. People do a lot of things for their own good before they stop to think how it’ll effect those around them. When you realize this, you release anger, frustration, and sadness. It’s a healthy thing to do.
|Posted on January 2, 2018 at 1:25 PM||comments (0)|
One of the best lessons I’m taking away from 2017 was learned from my cousin. Though initially her parents could not accept her relationship, she stuck by him, her beliefs, and her confidence in the relationship. I’ve learned if things matter to you, it doesn’t always matter what he or she thinks. At the end of the day, we are always responsible for our actions and how we feel. Everything that occurs is typically in result of a choice we once made. Put up a fight for what you love & never settle for less than butterflies. You deserve to live the life you’ve always imagined...however that looks to you. Don’t go into a career your parents want, don’t marry just because you feel you’re getting old. Never set limitations on yourself.
|Posted on August 7, 2017 at 3:25 PM||comments (0)|
Find light at the end of the tunnel. ✨ My hope for you is that you never feel alone and when your struggles feel heavy on your shoulders, you know someone out there believes in you. Don't let your current feelings, situation, circumstance, or worries break you. Let them be the driving force that gets you from point A to B. Crawl if you must, but please don't ever give up on your greater goals because they feel impossible now. Sometimes that means changing who we thought our greater goals were going to be with. Sometimes it means bravely moving forward without an idea of what's to come. I used to fear the unknown, what hadn't happened yet...the future. It took good things unexpectedly happening for me to realize that the universe wants good for us. The universe wants us to reach happiness, our goals, our destiny. However, to reach it, you must find gratitude amongst the present..and that means being grateful for things even when they feel terrible. If you're barely able to drag your feet today and the weight feels like it's on your shoulders, I am here. Message me. You're going to be ok.
|Posted on July 27, 2017 at 1:45 PM||comments (0)|
"Perhaps when you thought you weren't good enough...
the truth was that you were overqualified."
I've been there. We've all been there. In the position of someone telling us we deserve better, are going to find someone who deserves us, etc. I remember at the time feeling so damn confused too these words. It wasn't until years later that I realized deserving better isn't always because of your appearance or career or even the value in your bank. Deserving better is sometimes because your heart is magnificent. Because not everyone can understand, respect, or love like you do. Your heart is what makes your character beautiful and it's not for everyone...fortunately for you. Yes, fortunately. You deserve the very best with a heart like that and God bless the person who realized it enough to let you go so the universe can open doors, build paths and space for you to meet. I hope you never give in to the fear of not finding that person that you accept just any kind of love.
|Posted on July 27, 2017 at 2:40 AM||comments (0)|
"If you think I'm beautiful now,
wait until you get to know my heart."
The women I admire aren't beautiful because of the way their hair glistens in the sun or their smile lights up a room. They're beautiful because they have a caring heart, welcoming soul, and loving touch. They're beautiful because they do not judge others, worry what people think, or fear the future. They're beautiful...because they find the good in everything, laugh when happy, wave at strangers and above all, put themselves first. Tag the girls you know who embody this & so much more.
|Posted on July 26, 2017 at 4:35 PM||comments (0)|
Your current destination doesn't have to be your last. Don't like the life you're living? Change it. You're worthy of reaching all your goals, the hopes you have and the life you imagine. That may mean eliminating people from your life, distancing yourself from negativity, and leaving places that don't allow you to grow. Don't stay where you're not appreciated, respected, or loved. You're not to be tolerated...you're to be valued. If you can't get to that place today, close your eyes everyday, envision what that place looks like. Imagine what it feels like. See it. Feel it. Work for it. But no matter what, don't stop aiming to receive it. It'll come. I promise. #namaste #peaceofmind #daydreaming #bigpicture
|Posted on April 18, 2017 at 3:45 PM||comments (0)|
"Let someone love you just the way you are-- as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you thnk you are. To believe that you must hide all the parts of you that are broken, out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect, is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room...."
"...There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in."