|Posted on April 19, 2017 at 7:20 PM||comments (0)|
|Posted on April 18, 2017 at 3:45 PM||comments (0)|
"Let someone love you just the way you are-- as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you thnk you are. To believe that you must hide all the parts of you that are broken, out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect, is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room...."
"...There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in."
|Posted on April 17, 2017 at 10:55 AM||comments (0)|
Before you let a man sweep you off your feet
be sure he is prepared to catch you when you fall.
You might be too much woman for him.
You might be too independent.
Too smart. Too much of a catch.
He may not be ready, for the weight of how beautiful you are.
How gorgeous you are.
How strong you are.
He may not be ready yet.
You, have to be prepared...
to be yourself regardless of if he can carry you or not.
So it's important for you to know, his past.
His attributes. His strengths.
If he's prepared to handle how beautiful you are.
How gorgeous... How so awesome you are.
So, I'm here to tell you...
That it's super important for you to take your time.
Don't just listen to sweet nothings.
Don't just listen to words, watch actions.
Because you're too fragile to be dropped.
Your heart is way too valuable to be mishandled.
and your brain don't need a bruise.
So before you let a man, sweep you off your feet...
Be sure he is strong enough.
Secure enough in himself .
Be sure he has the proper amount of self-esteem... self-confidence
to handle who God created you to be.
Credit: Ace Metapor
|Posted on April 17, 2017 at 10:50 AM||comments (0)|
Hold on to every genuine person you find.
This generation has people driven by ego, money and status.
As a result, good souls are ruined daily.
Keep your head dup and be conscious of the energy you give out and connect with.
"When you find someone who sparks that fire in you, who ignites your passions, shares your dreams, who makes you the best version of yourself, hold onto them and don't let go. Fight for them, make them smile and love them so fiercely they will question whether they have ever been loved before."
|Posted on March 28, 2017 at 7:50 PM||comments (0)|
I received a message today from a follower who was having a hard time "letting go." In her mind, she was wrong and "dumb" for holding on to something that ended so long ago. I reassured her that you're never wrong for how you feel. When someone tries to deny your feelings, it's like they're telling you to stop telling the truth. Don't ever allow someone to dismiss, bring down or deny what you feel. There's also nothing wrong with feeling what you feel. Now, what she was wondering was something that could have been simply solved by asking a question to another. Her fear was "looking dumb." In my eyes, I told her that if she didn't ask, she'd always wonder. No one has time wondering. Pride is something that is something swallowed.
|Posted on March 28, 2017 at 7:45 PM||comments (0)|
A girl standing alone is not waiting for you.... Stand confidentially in the direction of your goals. Trust the process, the journey, the timing. Live for the moments, places and things that take your breath away. Stand strong, tall and proud of who you are...today. Have the courage to stay patient for what you deserve and never settle for anything less because your fear it may not come. Be you & own it. You're worth the wait.
|Posted on March 28, 2017 at 7:45 PM||comments (0)|
|Posted on February 22, 2017 at 12:55 PM||comments (0)|
"Love doesn't mean you don't fight. It means that when the fighting stops, the love is still there."
People may disagree, but I think there's different forms of love. I don't think a love for a child is equal as to loving a spouse. Personally, I feel they are different, thus making the statement in my eyes false. I think a love for a child is far more sacrificial and is done despite how many arguments is had. I think in a spouse, there needs to be a greater level of purpose behind arguments and far greater level of respect. It takes two to do make love as it does to make up. It takes two to want it enough to put aside pride. Choose wisely.
|Posted on February 22, 2017 at 12:50 PM||comments (0)|
I recently received an email from a follower wondering/asking when to walk away from what feels like a dead relationship. This question is always challenging to answer, because I think we ultimately are the only ones who know when we're ready. Then I remember to ask myself, are we ever ready? There are some things you can prepare for in life, then there are other things that are just kind of thrown in your path and you can't just ignore them. They are roadblocks and effect the journey. I've learned that this is okay. It's ok to hit these roadblocks; almost necessary. I think what's difficult to grasp is that the things that are holding us from moving forward are the same people who once helped us feel free, happy and unstoppable. Yet, they're now in our way. It's even weirder how the person that once allowed you to drop your guard is the same person who gives you 100 other reasons to put it back up. You're going to hit roadblocks in life, but it should never be from someone on your team. Sweetheart, know your worth. Know what you bring to the table and remember what kind of person you said you'd never settle for. Be brave, be unstoppable and don't be afraid of taking the journey alone. A woman standing alone is not waiting for you to save her. Walk alone if you must, but never settle for less than you deserve because baby, you're worth it. #loveyourself #neversettle #mediocre #journey
|Posted on January 18, 2017 at 4:55 PM||comments (0)|
"You should really give a fuck. You really should.
But only about things that set your soul on fire. Save your fucks for magical shit."
Life's a little too short to lose sleep on the insignificant matters in life. Whenever I find myself caring a little too much about things out of my control, I remember that all I can do is make sure I'm a good person (in my eyes). Show up, be present and give it all you've got. You can't make everyone happy and not everyone's drama is worthy of your time. Choose wisely. There are people out there with way more serious problems to be allowing small matters that won't matter a year from now to stop you from reaching your greatest potential. Keep doing you, babe. It was never about you anyway. #prayforthem #iprayforyou #lifequotes