Life. Moves. On.

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about goes on."- Robert Frost


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Posted on April 19, 2017 at 7:20 PM Comments comments (0)

Last night, a guy asked me if I'm the jealous type. I simply responded: "No." Through lessons, I've found that you can be with someone who makes you feel insecure which is the result of jealousy. Without a doubt, confidence is something found within and it's something that shouldn't be validated from others, but sometimes- those around you can be the cause of low self-esteem. Those kind of people are toxic and those type of people don't deserve your love. You have to let go of the ones that hold you back and attract only the ones who embrace your talents, beauty and above all, strengths. After all, life is too short to feel anything but happy. So, fall in love with yourself first because everything else after that is just extra. And remember, "The women who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet."

Crack in the window.

Posted on April 18, 2017 at 3:45 PM Comments comments (0)

"Let someone love you just the way you are-- as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you thnk you are. To believe that you must hide all the parts of you that are broken, out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect, is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room...."

"...There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in."

Before you let a man sweep you off your feet...

Posted on April 17, 2017 at 10:55 AM Comments comments (0)

Before you let a man sweep you off your feet

be sure he is prepared to catch you when you fall.

You might be too much woman for him.

You might be too independent.

Too smart. Too much of a catch.

He may not be ready, for the weight of how beautiful you are.

How gorgeous you are.

How strong you are.

He may not be ready yet.

You, have to be prepared...

to be yourself regardless of if he can carry you or not.

So it's important for you to know, his past.

His attributes. His strengths.

If he's prepared to handle how beautiful you are.

How gorgeous... How so awesome you are.

So, I'm here to tell you...

That it's super important for you to take your time.

Don't just listen to sweet nothings.

Don't just listen to words, watch actions.

Because you're too fragile to be dropped.

Your heart is way too valuable to be mishandled.

and your brain don't need a bruise.

So before you let a man, sweep you off your feet...

Be sure he is strong enough.

Secure enough in himself .

Be sure he has the proper amount of self-esteem... self-confidence

to handle who God created you to be.


Credit: Ace Metapor

Conscious Energy

Posted on April 17, 2017 at 10:50 AM Comments comments (0)

Hold on to every genuine person you find.

This generation has people driven by ego, money and status.

As a result, good souls are ruined daily.

Keep your head dup and be conscious of the energy you give out and connect with.

"When you find someone who sparks that fire in you, who ignites your passions, shares your dreams, who makes you the best version of yourself, hold onto them and don't let go. Fight for them, make them smile and love them so fiercely they will question whether they have ever been loved before."

Swallow your pride.

Posted on March 28, 2017 at 7:50 PM Comments comments (0)

I received a message today from a follower who was having a hard time "letting go." In her mind, she was wrong and "dumb" for holding on to something that ended so long ago. I reassured her that you're never wrong for how you feel. When someone tries to deny your feelings, it's like they're telling you to stop telling the truth. Don't ever allow someone to dismiss, bring down or deny what you feel. There's also nothing wrong with feeling what you feel. Now, what she was wondering was something that could have been simply solved by asking a question to another. Her fear was "looking dumb." In my eyes, I told her that if she didn't ask, she'd always wonder. No one has time wondering. Pride is something that is something swallowed.

Independently at Peace.

Posted on March 28, 2017 at 7:45 PM Comments comments (0)

A girl standing alone is not waiting for you.... �� Stand confidentially in the direction of your goals. Trust the process, the journey, the timing. Live for the moments, places and things that take your breath away. Stand strong, tall and proud of who you Have the courage to stay patient for what you deserve and never settle for anything less because your fear it may not come. Be you & own it. You're worth the wait.


Posted on March 28, 2017 at 7:45 PM Comments comments (0)
I think one of the greatest challenges for people in relationships is deciding when to try more or just walk away. I say relationships because there's already a sense of "commitment" there. We feel obligated to try in fear or being portrayed as someone who just gave up. Then there is a side of us that feels like we've given our all and that we couldn't possibly do more. I've heard people say they want something easy after being in a relationship that required a lot of work. Then I've heard from those who are in a relationship that's "easy", that they're bored, need something more stimulating or have lost interest. What do you define as easy? What do you define as difficult?

Are we just so used to the chaos that when there isn't any, we feel bored? Must there be madness to be lust?

Taking the leap.

Posted on March 1, 2017 at 5:00 PM Comments comments (0)

In life, we never know what shots we will make and the ones we won't. Whether it is in people, careers or new destinations... we won't know until we try. Often times, however, our fear of striking out keeps us from taking chances to what could potentially be the greatest shot of our lives. If you're looking for a sign you're on the right path, sometimes you just have to go on faith. Take the leap. Fall. Prevail. Win.

Pride vs. love

Posted on February 22, 2017 at 12:55 PM Comments comments (0)

"Love doesn't mean you don't fight. It means that when the fighting stops, the love is still there."

People may disagree, but I think there's different forms of love. I don't think a love for a child is equal as to loving a spouse. Personally, I feel they are different, thus making the statement in my eyes false. I think a love for a child is far more sacrificial and is done despite how many arguments is had. I think in a spouse, there needs to be a greater level of purpose behind arguments and far greater level of respect. It takes two to do make love as it does to make up. It takes two to want it enough to put aside pride. Choose wisely.

Stand Tall.

Posted on February 22, 2017 at 12:50 PM Comments comments (0)

I recently received an email from a follower wondering/asking when to walk away from what feels like a dead relationship. This question is always challenging to answer, because I think we ultimately are the only ones who know when we're ready. Then I remember to ask myself, are we ever ready? There are some things you can prepare for in life, then there are other things that are just kind of thrown in your path and you can't just ignore them. They are roadblocks and effect the journey. I've learned that this is okay. It's ok to hit these roadblocks; almost necessary. I think what's difficult to grasp is that the things that are holding us from moving forward are the same people who once helped us feel free, happy and unstoppable. Yet, they're now in our way. It's even weirder how the person that once allowed you to drop your guard is the same person who gives you 100 other reasons to put it back up. You're going to hit roadblocks in life, but it should never be from someone on your team. Sweetheart, know your worth. Know what you bring to the table and remember what kind of person you said you'd never settle for. Be brave, be unstoppable and don't be afraid of taking the journey alone. A woman standing alone is not waiting for you to save her. Walk alone if you must, but never settle for less than you deserve because baby, you're worth it. #loveyourself #neversettle #mediocre #journey